Ten Chinese parents who hide knives

 Chinese parents ten knife hidden in the body of Chinese parents who
ten hidden knife, parents often unknowingly use these ten knives, so that children born of pure character step by step disappear.
The first knife: cut off democracy, planted the seeds of
power for thousands of years Chinese people are used in the emperor's living under authoritarian one, in the traditional Chinese family, parents also is home of the emperor. They never acts to force decisions for a child should be how, not how the. today's children will not kneel down estimates, but in family life we have not done the most basic of democracy? For example, the interests of children involved in things that parents have sought the views of the child? When the event of a dispute within the family when there is no adoption of a democratic solution to the problem?
parents always used to use the simple and crude way to and this behavior is a knife cut off the child's sense of democracy in mind, and let him think everything might be able to overcome.
second knife: cut off love, planted the seed of selfishness is how you support
elderly parents and brothers and decorum with your skin, that point to sub-heritage parents and sister fight and when you have not noticed a pair of terrified eyes are confused look at your show?
When you see the thief pry the door neighbors, but you pulled a hurry to leave when his son, have not found another son's hand into a fist?
when her daughter told you tap the garden plot is broken, You are put on the tools to go immediately to the property repaired or call, or tell her Mind your own business?
you pretend not to see the instability of the old bus station, when the children want to get up your seat, you have to use eyes to stop him.
your child these subtle performance is part of family education, every action you are knifed knife to the child's love, and in his mind of young planted the seeds of selfishness .
third knife: cut off honest, planted the seeds lie lie
once their children can not understand the bashing, not scolded, or you can let the pain of the flesh as much as possible the advent of a later time, he may gradually become an expert liar.
children are forced to lie out. If we say that the truth can get benefits, that lie who would like to take the risk it?
kids have a lot of confusion mm Why Adults can lie, but kids would not? children thinking about this question shows that he has found that the adult is often lie.
we tend to argue that we have the children lie is the child is concerned, in good faith, whether you, malicious matter whether it was all a lie!
fourth knife: cut off adventure, planted the seeds of mediocrity
children to lower river swimming, not how to ensure his own church the safety of the water, but simply refuse to reason of course is dangerous mm.
children to climb is not allowed for security reasons.
teenage children, but also not a man to the door canteen to buy bottle of soy sauce, because the street is dangerous. children will not own Xiaoping Guo, because a knife is dangerous.
20-year-olds will not open fire cooking, because the gas is dangerous.
Yes ah, now Some social chaos, is dangerous to go out at home is not safe. but Men have been holding so, how can they grow up? a little bit of danger, have not experienced a child must be mediocre. danger exists everywhere, hide a not solve the problem, the key is to teach children identify hazards, crisis!
fifth knife: cut off disciplined, planted the seeds of illegal crossing
children themselves rarely go through a red light. children are riding will hang neatly in the bike driving. their children back in kindergarten when , do not take the underground passage, nor leave pedestrian bridge, but turned railings, street wear.
adults excuse is I'm busy, rush, knowing that cutter so that the child understand that the rules can be non-compliance, their own interests than the seriousness of the rules. a lot of people have opened the car, the car with children in mind there is no traffic rules, traffic signs, no eyes in the street rampage, the police have to see his uncle and we have to Some convergence.
This taught the child the rule of man over the rule of law, the implementation of the regulations were invisible, we can for their own interests trampling on the laws and regulations.
which were inherently heinous it? not are the step by step starting from the Zhanxiaopianyi the road to do illegal?
sixth knife: cut off good, planted the seeds of evil
ancient saying goes: small and whom not to be evil, not to the little things.
we do not want to take their children to donate clothes to the disaster area, because we pay a tax, it was a government thing.
we do not give a beggar a little something around the corner, because they are dirty .
When children can not afford to pay tuition fees to students contributions frail, you asked him if he had to do school rules, school regulations and asked to donate at least how much? you cut off little by little kids in the good nature of the body .
people look for when shopping money, and you quickly pulled the child out.
colleagues have sinned against you, you instruct the child secretly pulled out his bicycle valve inside.
few trees at home and cook onion You do not go by neighborhood, but told the boy to the hallway to seeds of failure under
play in the park when you take their children to Panzhi pick flowers. leaving children to take possession of junk you do not have dry cleaners. In order to make children happy, and regardless of the brand against the railing to the caged monkeys fed food. drinking beverages you readily throw bottles, finished her cigarette and throw your cigarette butts anywhere.
child's nature is to love nature, like animals, we are front of the children to kill her like fish, kill chickens and ducks her feel cute. so sad how the child is not willing to eat these animals out.
when we used to persuade children that Tell the child to the survival of humanity itself, can harm all living things!
eighth knife: cut off innovation, and planted the seeds of mechanical
our poor children in school and parents under the double destruction, does not know how to What is the innovation of the.
When children ask a few why, we may be tired because of his work and not bother to answer, perhaps because he asked the question is beyond the scope of our knowledge, perfunctory, perhaps you are as mahjong and card not bother to ignore him.
and our usual trick is this, a!
China is the greatest tragedy is to have knowledge but no property rights. This is the consequences of decades of examination-oriented education. In fact oriented education to a large extent the result of forced parents. We choose schools for their children when the primary consideration The transition rate is not or is it? We do not care what kids learn the knowledge, as long as the Tsinghua University, Beijing like!
ninth knife: cut off appreciation, planted the seeds of envy, when small children
always made no secret of a person or a thing of appreciation will be expressed with impunity their favorite.
children tell their parents how good a certain time when students, parents always talk to him to take a child's weaknesses compare the worship of the people, or say Comparison of style is easy to criticize the child's enthusiasm dampened, greatly hurt the child's self-esteem.
bragging time when the child will say, , and ridiculed by their parents, the children enjoy a good state of mind that will become the envy of the poor. jealous of the life of a public hazard by our innocent children to learn!
X knife: cut off competition , planted the seeds of hatred
competition could have been the driving force of social development, a competitive society is not natural to lose upward momentum. people are in this competitive environment to survive. mankind itself is the competition in the animal winning out, so people naturally have the sense of competition. a perfectly normal thing is failure to learn to hold the hand of the winner to congratulate him sincerely.
we were colleagues in the unit may be exceed, in the the business world to defeat opponents. Back home we are not objective analysis of the causes of failure, for the next victory is looking for more objective reasons abuse competitors. Do not think your child is still small, but also do not understand these Daren the things he has learned from your body beyond his hatred of people, learn to test Di Yiming achievers students in Riga An Mianyao glass!
reflect on it, we each do the parents who are should reflect! social injustice in our blame, blame the failure of education, accuse others of moral decay, we own and how you train our children in? put away the knife in your hand, so that our children can thrive in the health growth, to retain their natural good quality, to our community with hope!